Social Media Hate

So, what is up with all the hate on social media? I don’t get it. My husband doesn’t do social media, so he asked me to post his boat for sale, but we listed his phone number and said to contact him. I received a message saying “oh you’re an idiot. Post something for sale but not the phone number”. The phone number was on there. Within 4 minutes he had sent me all kinds of nasty messages calling me “ghetto trash”. Then he blocked me surprise, surprise. Like what would inspire him to attack me like that for no reason. I had another user reach out to me on a blog before and same thing just started attacking me. Saying that they had seen me out doing things that absolutely weren’t true or even relevant. They said they saw me with my dad (who happens to be deceased) so it was all just lies. But why?? Why do people feel the need to reach out and spew hate at strangers for no reason? I see it all the time on famous you-tubers and tik tok accounts. I don’t know. I am just not that type of person who would ever just spew hate at someone and call them names. Keyboard warriors. Ugh. I just needed to vent about that.

Something new....

 Well hello!  Yes, I have been MIA forever.  I know, I know.  I always think about blogging and then bam! Life hits me in the face again.  BUT...I am here to talk about something new I have been working on.  Sublimation printing.  It differs from iron on vinyl in the way that with sublimation, your ink is actually transferred into the item.  There are always caveats of course.

I will say this is very much a trial by fire kind of thing.  Expect mistakes.  Expect learning curves.  I am just now getting to the point where I am getting more comfortable with making certain items and not finding a million faults with it.

I actually started with attempting tumblers but who knows what I was thinking because they are HARD to get down.  The ghosting is a huge problem for many people.  I then attempted a magnet which was fairly easy, even if a little off center.  Oh and don't mind the towel that we have that has the outline of the photo now inked into it. A learning curve!

Shirts are by far what I have been trying the most.  Learning what materials work best, how to not get the design on the back of the shirt also, how to keep your design in place.  The biggest caveat to shirts is the higher the polyester count, the brighter the image.  Now, polyester shirts are not always easy to find but thankfully there are a lot of shops popping up that sell sublimation blanks.  The next is that you cannot print white.  There is not white ink in the majority of sublimation printers (or maybe not in any, I am not sure).  

I will explain more in future blogs but I wanted to provide some examples of different materials.

This shirt is 100% polyester. There is no white so your image will take on the color of the shirt.

This is a faux bleached shirt that is 95% polyester and the colors are popping!

This shirt is 100% polyester

This is a great side by side comparison.  Same design.  Shirt on the left is the faux bleach 95% polyester.  Shirt on the right is 65% polyester, 35% cotton and I bleached it myself.  It has a much more vintage look to it because essentially only 65% of the ink was absorbed.



This one is 60% polyester/ 40% cotton but no bleach.

Another 95% polyester

Thanks for checking it out!

This Years Valentines

 

We took a break from valentine’s last year as Kinley was not involved in any thing in which she could exchange valentines.  Surprisingly, I had a bit of a hard time finding something that we loved this year that we haven’t done before.  We did 2 sets this year.  One for her travel softball team, and one for her class.  I will explain both here.

 

For softball, I had the idea that I would try my hand at making scrunchies.  I mean, you can learn anything on You-tube, right??  Unfortunately, I could not find any softball themed material to do this so off to Amazon I went.

 

For this template, I went to Etsy and bought it.  I could have made something similar, but this person created the idea, so I am all about supporting it.  I used my Cricut print and cut feature for these.  The one downside was that I only had one trip to Walmart to buy cardstock in time and it was much thinner than I liked, and I felt too thin to withstand the scrunchie on it.  So, I flipped the image in Cricut design space and made it a solid color.  So, for each valentine, there were 2 print and cut items and we glued them together.  Totally my fault for not being prepared with the right items.  It would have cut our time in half.  What do you think of these?

 

The valentines for the class also were made using the print and cut option and the design was bought off Pinterest.  I was satisfied with the thickness of the cardstock for this project.  The only downfall we had on these was there wasn’t much room to write who they were to or from.  She could have used the back of them I suppose.  The valentine design was created to hold a sucker/pencil etc.  We did use suckers, but Kinley is very into making bracelets with the tiny rubber bands.  She decided to make one for each of the 28 students in her class.  Very ambitious of her!  To attach them, I had to unhook the s-clip and thread it through.  I truly hope her classmates enjoy these cute valentines.

Where are they going??

 

You know I keep reading these articles about how everyone is leaving the workforce in droves.  Where are they going?  Can I go too?  Seriously, how are these people providing for their families.

Here’s the thing.  I have done so many side hustles in my life hoping they would be “the one” that allowed me to work for myself.  I am here to tell you folks that none of them worked like that.  I see people doing it.  I seen someone who is making a killing and earned a freaking Cadillac by selling keto powders.  I tried to sell weight loss stuff one time and the only thing I earned was the annoyance of my friends.  So how do you do it?  What makes something all of a sudden take off for one person and not for someone else?  I know hard work and dedication.  Maybe I didn’t stick with any of them long enough, except the leggings. I sold leggings for years.  Made a little money, nothing to write home about.

I am not looking for a get rich quick scheme, although that would certainly be nice.  I am looking for ideas that people do who work for themselves and make a living doing it.  Let me hear what you got!

It's Been a While

 Hey guys!  It has been a while for me for sure.  I would love to say that I was doing something great, saving the world or something.  Nope.  Just battling this ever-lasting depression.  I feel like there is so much to say and yet nothing at all to say.

I am still working from home and it looks like that will be a permanent thing, or at least in some kind of hybrid mode.  People always say they wish they could work from home.  And let me tell ya, there are perks for sure.  The biggest drawback is the loneliness.  Kayla got her first full time adult job and is gone before I wake up.  Derek is working, which hasn't ever changed during covid.  Kinley is back in school.  I am home alone all day with my work, my thoughts, my messy house, and my dog.

Let me catch you up on Kinley a bit because that girl keeps us busy.  She is now on a travel softball team which we swore would never happen at this age but the love that girl has for the game, it was just unfair to hold her back.  With that comes yearlong practice and of course camps.  So far, I wouldn't change it for the world.  Watching her hit her first homerun (which at an older age, it wouldn't have been one), was so exciting.  She never even got to score a run before this team.  How can you not get caught up in that excitement?  She will also be doing bowling tournaments starting here in a couple weeks.  I am not a bowler folks.  Everyone in my house will tell you I don't really like it and I am horrible at it.  But Kinley...she loves it.  Within a few weeks of her bowling last year, people would stop and randomly watch her.  She was on bumpers and just whipping that ball down there, but these bowlers saw potential in her that I just couldn't see.  She ended up scoring the top game and top scratch series for females in the bumper league.  Derek and her did a parent/child league over the summer and they held their own pretty well.  I believe they came in 10th out of 40 teams but most of these kids were teenagers.  They had fun.  Now she is back in the regular bowling league and again, people stop and watch.  They say she has raw talent and is so coachable that she should be able to score scholarships no problem.  We will see how long she likes this stuff.  If at any point, she wanted to stop playing any sport, we would support her.  If the want to play isn't there, the skill won't be either.  She is also still participating in karate.  She is now a red belt.  It's amazing to watch her skills progress as her little body catches up with itself and her balance improves.

As for me, I just can't get my groove back.  I stay busy because that is what I have to do with my family.  But I want to feel like me again. So, if anyone sees the real "me" out there, please send her my way!

Classroom Birthday Treats

 How many of us loved taking in cookies or cupcakes for our birthday and getting to pick a special helper to pass them out?  I didn't because I have a summer birthday but I was always so excited to get picked as the helper.  Nowadays, you will be hard pressed to find a school that allows any kind of edible treat for birthdays.  Kinley's school will not allow anything edible even if it is packaged and store bought.  She was pretty disappointed in this and didn't want to pass out the pencils or erasers that were recommended by the teacher because she never keeps the ones that she gets so why would anyone keep hers?

Kinley had decided she just wasn't going to take anything to school for her birthday....until a week before when we were browsing Pinterest for Halloween ideas.  We came upon cute ideas for passing out glow sticks (which she is obsessed with) so we tried a search for the same idea for birthdays and bam! Found something.  The saying itself is from another persons pin but I could not get their free template to load so I just had to make my own with my Cricut and use the print and cut feature, although these could be cut by hand pretty easily.

We found these packages of glowsticks at Walmart and as you can see, they were pretty inexpensive.  We needed 3 packs to cover the whole class.

I did have Kinley write her name on each of these and should have left her a bit more room but it worked out.  We tried to use blue and green cardstock as well but they were too dark for our light ink to show up.  This was just regular cardstock, also bought from Walmart.  We then just used the strings that come with the glowsticks to make a necklace to loop the card through and voila.  A nice birthday treat.

I will say Kinley came home with a funny story the next day.  She said "Mom, we got good reviews on our gift!"  I was utterly confused for a moment on what she was talking about and who reviewed us.  She then said a boy in her class loved it and said it made his room glow all night.  That was the "review" she was talking about.  I laughed.  I am glad both the boy, and Kinley enjoyed their birthday treat.

Baby Shower Gifts

 

I never like giving typical gifts for any event, especially baby showers.  I feel like my baby showers were such a blur of opening gifts and playing games that you never really remember who gave you those onesies or that pack of diapers. A personalized gift though?  They very well may remember that.  I am by no means a professional at any of this stuff, but I can look up ideas on Pinterest with the best of them.

 

My nephew and his new wife were expecting their first child together.  I wanted to give them more than just a wrapped pack of diapers.  I decided to try my hand at 2 types of gifts related to diapers.

 

The first is this diaper cake boat.  I was so intimidated by this and it really was the easier of the two.  For my base, I flattened the diaper box and just wrapped it in wrapping paper (last minute idea when I realized I needed a base).  The main part of the boat is a plastic dollar store bin covered in a receiving blanket, but you could use any type of box you wanted.  This will also help determine how many diapers you need around it to make the boat shape.  I did roll the diapers with rubber bands but tried to leave them loose as I do remember how hard it was to put a rolled-up diaper on a baby.  Rolling them allows them to stand freely to allow you to build your boat shape.  Once you have it how you like it, you need to wrap it with something to keep it in place.  This was the most difficult part for me.  I used twine first but as you pull to tighten of course it shifts the diapers a bit.  I didn't love the look of it, but it was holding them in place well so then I went around it again with a burlap and hot glued parts of that to the twine to keep it from slipping down.  Then I simply filled my basket with goodies and added my fishing pole to round it out.  That was made from a simple wood bamboo skewer with twine tied to it and I believe we found the fish in the cat toy section of the store.  Surprisingly this didn't slide as much as I feared during transport.

 

This next basket just gave me a much harder time than that big old boat.  I wanted to try to keep these diapers straight and not roll them and it seemed so easy in my head.  However, it took many hands to keep them in place while trying to tie something around them to keep them in place.  Then the diapers started trying to fold down from the top which was not a problem I had anticipated.  I didn't want to ruin the diapers, so I just used some scotch tape and taped them to the basket.  The hot air balloon part also did not turn out the way I imagined.  The balloon portion is a paper lantern.  The one I seen on Pinterest must have been a much larger balloon because the supports were able to come straight down.  You would definitely want to use wooden dowels for the support.  I again used my bamboo skewers which were not long enough, so I glued two together and reinforced it with twine.  This basket didn't hold many gifts or use many diapers, but it was great for a side gift.

 

For both gifts together, I used one large box of size 3 diapers.  I believe there were 110. 

 

I have also tried a version of this hot air balloon without the diapers.  It was still cute but not as cute as I would have liked.

 

The next project I attempted was this elephant with birth stats.  I have seen them all over Facebook and Etsy.  You could line up your stats however you desired on the ears.  The hardest part of this project was there were small pieces of htv.  Also, heating on the ear but not trying to touch the animal was difficult but I think you would get it down with practice.  My items shifted a bit and I ended up using a hair straightener to get the pieces closest to the animal.

 

Now onto the shadow boxes.  I personally love the one with the hand rolled flowers but let me warn you, there were many finger burns involved in that process.  For the design, I bought a layout off Etsy, but you could easily design your own.  The rolled flowers are the most time-consuming part of this project.

 

For my next shadow box, they had told me they were doing the nursery in a superhero theme, so it threw my rolled flowers out of the window.  It took me a while to decide how I wanted to incorporate that theme into a shadow box.  I eventually decided to go with glitter cardstock as the background and then I used print and cut to make little superheroes out of cardstock, and I glued them onto the background and then added the stats on the glass.  It wasn't quite the wow factor I was looking for, but they loved it, nonetheless.

 

I hope you have enjoyed seeing some of the baby shower gifts I have made.  If you have any questions on them, please feel free to reach out.